One of the greatest songs to come out of the 1960s was “See Me, Feel Me” (aka. See Me, Feel Me/Listening to You) by The Who.
It came on the radio recently and it said something to me it had not before, “This is what employees are demanding today and most employers are not listening.”
See me
Feel me
Touch me
Heal me
“It takes curiosity to learn. It takes courage to unlearn. Learning requires the humility to admit what you don't know today. Unlearning requires the integrity to admit that you were wrong yesterday. Learning is how you evolve. Unlearning is how you keep up as the world evolves.” ~ Adam Grant
If you do not have the courage, expect to be left behind.
If you do not have the courage, expect to become irrelevant.
Read MoreIt is time to unlearn and relearn.
“If you’re thinking in terms of ‘returning’—returning to the old way, returning to the way the office used to be, returning to what worked for you—then it’s time to rethink that direction. We need to move forward to a new path, and that requires engaging your employees to establish new ways of working together.”
Read MoreAccording to Harvard-based child psychologist Paul Harris, a child asks around 40,000 questions between the ages of two and five. But they are not doing it just to drive you crazy. They want an explanation.
Right now, we must model this behaviour not because we need to relive our early years but because we have a right to demand an explanation regarding the mandate to return to the office.
I have spoken to many employees who have been told they must attend the office so many days each week. or they must attend the office on specific days of the week. Every one of them, without exception, cannot explain the reasoning behind the decision.
Read MoreThe demand for employees to return to the office because it will impact the culture is just an attempt to return to how it was before the pandemic. The fact is there is no going back.
I would suggest that if you believe that you need everyone to return to the office for organisational culture reasons, you did not have a good culture in the first place. Culture is not bound by physical enclosures. A great culture permeates an organisation and its workforce without limitation.
Read MoreIn this eBook I reveal the indicators that most leaders are not ready to lead the distributed team.
I dispel the myths around a distributed working model and show you how to rethink - reimagine - reinvent.
I share my Distributed Leadership Model which contains the competencies needed by all leaders to effectively lead the distributed team.
Read MoreThe recent Microsoft Work Trends Index: Pulse Report is a testament to the growing divide between employers and employees. I wrote about The Great Divide In The Workplace back in October 2021
Microsoft surveyed 20,000 people in 11 countries, and analysed trillions of Microsoft 365 productivity signals, along with LinkedIn labour trends and Glint People Science findings.
The report had three key findings and for each the need for better leadership is the answer.
Read More“Improving life at work isn’t rocket science, but the world is closer to colonising Mars than it is to fixing the world’s broken workplaces.
The real fix is this simple: better leaders in the workplace. Managers need to be better listeners, coaches, and collaborators. Great managers help colleagues learn and grow, recognise their colleagues for doing great work, and make them truly feel cared about. In environments like this, workers thrive.” (Gallup 2022)
Read MoreIn this article I describe a working work as it should be with myself in the role of employee. We explore each day of the week, my relationship with my team and my boss. We describe the working model “Preference First.”
Read MoreWe are getting the future of work wrong because we are using the wrong language.
The language we are using is wrong. We all need to speak the same language and understand what it really means. We all need to be on the same page. What remote-first means to one person will be totally different to what it means for another person. We need clarity.
Read MoreHBR research determined the capabilities now in demand, how they have changed over time, and what adjustments organisations need to make to ensure they have the right social skills in place for success.
The social skills needed include:
· High levels of self-awareness
· Ability to communicate and listen effectively
· Facility for working with a diverse workforce
· Theory of mind – the capacity to infer how others are thinking and feeling
In this newsletter I will look at the last two social skills as well as three fundamental characteristics that I believe must be in place if these other social skills are to be built.
Read MoreA recent article from Harvard Business Review caught my attention. It reaffirmed what many of us already know which that is being a good CEO is no longer just about having industry expertise and financial savvy but more about having strong social skills.
Whilst the article focuses on the C-suite, I believe that the social skills apply at every level of the organisation. You don’t know where your next executive may come from but home-grown is best. That approach allows internal up-and-comers to hone and demonstrate a range of strong social skills.
Read MoreA recent newsletter explored the findings of Gallup survey and the resultant report entitled Transforming Workplaces Through Recognition.
The report recognised that employers must create an environment in which employees want to work and can be their best. It is much more than just offering a job if employers want to attract and retain talent. It starts with showing employees that they are valued and this is achieved through recognition of their contribution or what I call positive reinforcement.
The report suggested that leaders can unleash the human element at work by taking five steps to build a better recognition strategy, and I wanted to explore them in this newsletter.
Read MoreGlobally, only one in four employees strongly agree they feel connected to their culture, and only one in three strongly agree they belong at their company. This is damning. If organisations truly want to retain and attract talent for survival, they must demonstrate to employees that they are valued by recognising their contributions.
There is also a return-on-investment. Gallup reports that creating a culture of recognition can save a 10,000-employee company up to $16.1 million in turnover costs annually.
Read MoreAll too often in my consultancy business I observe teams in meetings in which the silence is deafening. When someone does speak up, it seems like the leader is listening to their own voice. Their words get played back.
This is the leadership bubble in which the leader’s voice, ideas, thoughts, reverberate around the room – physical or virtual. In this bubble the leader and team are subject to groupthink.
Read MoreIn my last newsletter I explored the first five differences between communication and conversation in my infographic.
I think we talk less about communication regarding our change efforts and talk more about having a conversation.
As I said in my previous newsletter, communication cannot be the means of conversation whilst conversation can be the means of communication.
Read MoreI still come across managers and executives that believe that they have communicated because they sent an email to staff. That is not communication, that is a broadcast. To avoid common mistakes like this associated with communication, we should think more about having a conversation which would avoid the “talking at you” form of exchanging information to become the “talking with you” exchange of words.
Read MoreIt will be the forward-looking organisations, executives and leaders that embrace this opportunity for the long-term success of the organisation whilst prioritising their own well-being and that of the entire organisation.
If no action is taken and the 70% of the C-suite considering quitting do so, and the 57% of employees who also said they may soon quit for a more supportive job did so, the organisation is on a rapid downward trajectory to insignificance.
Read MoreI can sense the eye rolls already. “Haven’t we read enough about Elon Reeve Musk over the past couple of weeks?”
Yes, you have but I want to explore not so much what Elon has done but the responses to his actions and the consequences I believe could result.
Read MoreWhen we talk about bad bosses, we attribute them with all the traits, intents and dispositions of being disrespectful, noninclusive, unethical, manipulative, cutthroat, and abusive.. Yet if they actually exhibited these characteristics, they would a megalomaniac, a tyrant, a narcissist, a dictator, and despot.
We have all had a bad boss at one time or another. Would you really label your bad boss in that manner? I don’t think so. In most cases, the bad boss does not have any deep-seated personality disorders. They are just in the wrong job or unsupported.
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